Eternal Thoughts of Heart and Mind

You have a good heart. You are a nice person. You are a good friend. But why does it ends here all the time?

"You need to take your mind off distractions", was a suggestion given to me by my closest friend when I told her about arrange marriage meetings I am having with guys. Most of us always want to have a love marriage, where we are in a relationship and our love is blossoming into this beautiful trust that commits us to our partner for the rest of our life. But sometimes we don't get what we want. A lot of us finally go the arrange marriage route because of various reasons. When I decided to take this path, I started meeting people and realized that I may not fall in love with the person but there is a sense of connectivity that I will definitely feel once I find the right guy. During this phase only I was talking to one of my friend who told me that when you decide on one thing then rest of the things are distractions and we need to get away from them. Once we take our mind off them, we will be able to see things clearly and the best thing will happen in our life. I ha...

Do not know what is going on, Do not understand what happened, Trying to collect my own thoughts, And ignoring some facts at the same time. Trying to understand the situation is not helping, Ignoring the situation is not helping, Mind is in a state of restlessness, Cutting through my sane thoughts endlessly. Talking about situation might help, Confiding in someone might help, But only person to understand this situation, Might not get the fiery waves of my mind. Asking someone to calm down is okay, But without understanding their emotions is not okay, How are you suppose to make a person listen, And convince them to understand your situation?

In real life there are no Fairies, In real life there are no Genies, In real life there are no Godmothers, In real life there are no Magic wands. In real life there are real struggles, In real life there are real disappointments, In real life there are real misconceptions, In real life there are real situations. There is no fairy tale in Real Life, You have to create your own!

Happiness is a state of mind, And you are in control of that. Things don't go according to your expectations always, There are a lot of sacrifices and compromises involved. You need to have strong will, And have a brave face. There will be people you want in life, Along with reasons for not being together with them. There will be people to pull you down, But you have to keep your head help up high.

Holding onto things makes you hopeful, But being sad in process is not a good idea. Letting go of things will make you cry sometimes, But becoming stronger with this will be The Real Hope.

Love and luck are closely related. Sometimes it's love that doesn't work out, And sometimes it's luck that leaves your side. 

When cupid fails to find you every time, it is a sign to leave things on luck for a while. Eventually there will be starry sky, pink roses and sparkling wine, meant just for you.

Hope against time is way to live life, Hope against negativity is a way to lead life, Being positive brings satisfaction and content, Hope for that state of mind is a need of life. Work against failure creates new definition of life, Work against bad luck renders new picture of life, Stay positive with head held up high, Working hard gives a new meaning to life. Life is tough which we all know, Life can be better too as we all know, Good luck is always with you, Life will have a new chapter for everyone to know.

Strangers can be friends and friends can be strangers. You can be comfortable with someone one day, And the next day that person might become out of reach for you. It hurts a lot when that happens, But that is life and you have to move on. Being stuck in that situation is not a solution. Getting out of it and embracing life's opportunities is.

I wish there was a way to be optimistic in life, I wish there was a way to be happy and content in your heart, These things comes from within you, But if everything around you keeps falling apart, How are you suppose to save yourself from breaking down?