"You need to take your mind off distractions", was a suggestion given to me by my closest friend when I told her about arrange marriage meetings I am having with guys. Most of us always want to have a love marriage, where we are in a relationship and our love is blossoming into this beautiful trust that commits us to our partner for the rest of our life. But sometimes we don't get what we want. A lot of us finally go the arrange marriage route because of various reasons. When I decided to take this path, I started meeting people and realized that I may not fall in love with the person but there is a sense of connectivity that I will definitely feel once I find the right guy. During this phase only I was talking to one of my friend who told me that when you decide on one thing then rest of the things are distractions and we need to get away from them. Once we take our mind off them, we will be able to see things clearly and the best thing will happen in our life. I ha...